Monday, March 3, 2014

Journaling




Today let’s chat about journaling. Most people probably got their first experience with journaling as a third grade assignment. When I was in the third grade (with Mrs. Kolstad’s class at Deephaven Elementary) we started class every day with 15-20 minutes of writing in those Harriet the Spy type of notebooks. Of course, I don’t remember what I wrote about but I know that I gained a lot of interest in writing through those assignments. Allowing children to free-write is a great idea, it’s an entirely different form of writing than academic writing because it enables children to write at their own pace and about their own interests. I’m a firm believe that you can never write enough!

However, I definitely fell off the journaling wagon in middle and high school. There were many times that I would begin writing in a journal, with the full intention of making a habit out of it, only to let it be forgotten. I’m not sure why I was not able to keep it up; I always loved writing creatively but for some reason I was not reliable when it came to keeping a journal.

That changed the summer after my freshman year of college, probably due to the fact that I bought a very pretty, floral designed journal by Vera Bradley (she discontinued them!) at my school’s bookstore. Since then, I’ve gone through 8 journals and I started my 9th after this past Christmas. I don’t always write every day, and on occasion I let a week go by without writing.



I’ve found that journaling is really therapeutic and cathartic. I typically don’t like to write about negative or upsetting things—because I don’t necessarily want to remember them. But if I’m upset or worried about something, writing about can clear up my thoughts or help me to understand why something is bothering me. It’s rare that I don’t feel better and more relaxed after writing down my thoughts and worries.

I also like the idea of preserving memories. Maybe one day, when I have children, they will read my journals to learn more about me. I can also relive important and wonderful moments by reading what about what I was feeling and thinking.

So what about you? Do you journal? Or have you tried in the past but it just hasn’t stuck? Next week, I’ll post a journal prompt that could work as a jumping off point to journaling. Happy writing!

Saturday, March 1, 2014

Literary Love Quotes



As an English major and bookworm of many, many years I really wanted to incorporate the magic of books and literature into our wedding. At the reception, we’re incorporating love quotes from great authors into the centerpieces. Here are just a few of my favorites that we’ll be using!


 “My will and my desire were turned by love, The love that moves the sun and other stars.”—Dante Alighieri

 “We loved with a love that was more than love”—Edgar Allen Poe

“If ever two were one, then surely we. If ever man were loved by wife, then thee; I prize thy love more than whole mines of gold, Or all the riches that the East doth hold.”—Anne Bradstreet

What are your favorite love quotes by famous authors? What about for Virginia Woolf? Or EE Cummings? CS Lewis?

Thursday, February 27, 2014

20 Things


Hi friends! I’ve seen this list of 20 questions floating around the blog world for a few days now and I thought it would be a great way to start blogging.

1. what brings you the greatest joy? Spending time with family when everyone is happy and having a good time!
2. what are your vices? Online shopping, snacking, buying food we don’t need, reading blogs until all hours of the night.
3. what's on your nightstand? My journal, 4 or 5 books, a vase of (dying) ranunculus, a jewelry dish.
4. do you have a secret talent? Not that I can think of! Sad.
5. what is your greatest indulgence? Desserts and sweet breakfasts.
6. what should every woman try at least once in her life? Doing something outside of your comfort zone or something you usually need help with by yourself.
7. what makes you laugh? Being tickled, Jimmy Fallon, Will & Grace, people watching.
8. what is one thing people would be surprised to know about you? I’m easily contented. I can spend full days at home in comfy clothes and be happy.
9. what is on your bucket list? I’ve never written one, but the first thing that comes to mind is more travel. I want to go to Spain, see a production at the Globe Theater, and visit AJ’s hometowns in Peru.
10. what is on your feet right now? Two pairs of socks (my room is freezing!)
11. how did you make your first dollar? Working at the dance studio I used to perform at—assisting the teaching of classes and working as a receptionist.
12. what superstition do you believe in? I believe in some old, Italian superstitions like the evil eye put on you and not celebrating your birthday before the actual day.
13. what items in your closet do you wear the most? Express tank tops, I wear them in white and black under just about everything!
14. what is the best gift you've ever received? My engagement ring from AJ. Also, a coaster that my best friend gave me back in high school—it has ‘Romeo and Juliet’ written on it, it’s been sitting on my desk or night side table since I got it. I love it because it’s simple but it’s a great decoration and a way to personalize my space.
15. what is on your liquor shelf? Literally, nothing. Wine is in abundance but the only thing stronger than that is a half empty bottle of Sambuca left over from my 21st birthday party.
16. what is on your kitchen counter? A blender, pannini maker, bowl of raspberries, aging oranges, and other clutter.
17. what would you never leave home without? My phone, a book in my purse, and the jewelry that I wear everyday.
18. what movie has the greatest ending? The Godfather comes to mind but that’s probably just because it’s my favorite movie. It IS an iconic ending though!
19. who is on the guest list for your ideal dinner party? Does it matter that they’re all dead? The Peabody sisters, Shakespeare, Dante Alighieri, and F. Scott Fitzgerald.
20. what is one thing you wish you had known when you were younger? That you can control whether or not you’re in a good mood and that you can control what you let effect you.


Feel free to answer some or all of these questions for yourself on your own blog or in a comment so we can get to know each other!

Wednesday, February 26, 2014

Hello! Welcome! New Blog!


Hey friends! That's me, Elena. The cute boy is AJ, my soon to be hubby. This is where I hope to blog about our lives and record all the fun, amazing, and even the not-so-great stuff that life offers. Thanks for reading and enjoy!